Tuesday, December 10, 2013


I never thought that nauseous and vomitting during early pregnancy will be this hard.. in other words.. punya sengsara sa bilang!!!!!
I never experienced this before during both pregnancy.. my friends said that maybe this time its a girl.. well.. hopefully.. because the doc still cant determine the gender yet. Its still too early. Nothing much to be seen. Entering 8 weeks now. Haihh.. susah juga ni kalau rasa loya saja.. kerja pun x berjalan..sebab teda mood. Melayan ni rasa mo muntah saja.

To be honest. I'm kinda nervous with this pregnancy. Because its been 4 years now. The gap with my youngest son for me is too far. Well.. I just hope everything will went well. And hopefully this nauseous feeling will fade away soon.

Wish me luck with this pregnancy.

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Funeral - Tradition

As you all know from my last post, my grandma just passed away. During the funeral I've learned a lot of tradition thingy regarding our tribe Dusun. Well I cant really say that its every Dusun's tradition because some might have different way of having it or maybe not practicing it as well. But here's ours. From what I've observe.
Usually at my kampung, when someone pass away, the family will keep the body for 3 days. Reason, to let the relatives and friends from afar get the chance to see the body for one last time before burial. From what I see from my grandma's funeral, they mixed it with Catholic practice. Prayers will be held. But thats a religion thing. I'm talking about tradition here.
I also learned that during funeral the family members cant have a sleep at night. They're supposed to be awake until morning taking care of the body as well as keeping company to relatives or orang kampung that came to stay overnight. Usually there will be gambling. Ketam2 is a must. I dont know the reason. But maybe just to make it merrier or maybe to make everybody awake. I'm not against it. But some people refuse to let gambling happens during funeral. Well may maybe its up to the family. So what we did is, me made coffee..  a dark and thick coffee to be served all night long. Well of course I managed to get asleep even just only for an hour or two. Hehe. My uncle made noises in the dawn just to make people whose asleep awake. My aunt says its normal. During her time is much worst and funnier. When she fell asleep, people surround her with cans attached to a rope. So when she get up, the cans make sounds and people will notice then laugh. Its a joke. I cant really understand it but I think I might have the picture there. Haha.
The next thing is during burial. No greens are allowed when burying the body. Ermm.. I didnt get the chance to ask about that yet. But maybe it means that anything dead cant be mixed with living things. In this case. Green grass. Ooh.. not mentioning.. the family members cant eat any vegetables too for a week. Its a sign of mourning.
After coming back from burial, everyone who come back to the house should step over a small fire. Chasing away all the bad spirits who followed them home. Some says that it can be done using lime's water which is used to wash face, hands and feet.
On the 7th day of death, there will be a "momisok" ceremony where all the lights will be take out. And the people in the house is expecting the soul of the deceased to be back home for one last time. I remember when I was little, they put a basin in front of the door. And when the lights is on, there were footsteps. For my grandma's case, I missed the ceremony.  Coz im back at KL already. My family did the momisok last night (6th day). The orang kampung asked to do it earlier bcoz mom is having a prayer session on the 7th day. The orang kampung said that they should do it before the prayer because the soul will left the house after the prayer session. Errr... ya I know its a lil bit superstitious... but just go with the flow la. Kalau x buat the orang kampung will talk behind our back. And guess what. Based on my cousins..they said the nenek has been home last night. She even took bath and eat. As well as see my cousin's daughter. A baby. @_@ (I don't know ahhh...)
So.. thats all that I've learned from my tradition. Just as a sharing..
So what's your tradition?
Again.. tradition okay. Not religion.
Do not make any provocative comments or wild perceptions.

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Rest In Peace Grandma

I've just comeback from Sabah last night. I went back on Friday to attend my grandmas' s funeral on Saturday.
Everything went well. Thank God for the nice weather during burial.
I cant tell how I really miss her. All her funny stories and actions. I loved her with all my heart. And it hurts me when I heard the news. Coz im the only grandchildren that havent met her while she was dying at hospital. Plus she has been staying with my family since forever. We were very close.
I guess she'll understand my situation. And my prayer is always with her.
Here are some pics I took.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013


Yep. I'm pregnant.
6 weeks.. I've just scan it. Haha.. I know its too early. But I just wanted to know how old is my baby. Because I cant really rely on my last menses. Since I have irregular menses before. And yep. The doc also said after scanning that its 6 weeks. Nothing much to be seen yet. Just water in a bubble look like. Hahaha.  Still too fragile. I cant do much heavy work now. Because its too fragile. Hehe.

So there you go. The jeng jeng jeng of my previous post LATE.

Just wanted to share.

Sunday, November 24, 2013


Well.. both my boys are bald already. Owh.. not mentioning the daddy too. Haha.
I told him I hate bald. And you know what? I thought I really hated it. But it turns out I like it tho.
Why they're suddenly bald?
Coz the rascals had lices on their head. Don't know they got it from who but we suspected the school.
So the daddy decided to give them a haircut. We went to salon and chopped off all their hair. Daddy wanted to go bald too.. he said he wanted to be bald together with his sons. Hehe.. so sweet of u daddy.
Now left me.
Huhu.. I suspected I got infected by the rascals already. So im considering a hair cut. And I kind of wash my hair twice a day recently. Huhu.. worried as hell.

Dont they look cute??

Wednesday, November 20, 2013


I'm late.


If you know what I mean.



Thursday, November 14, 2013

Deklamasi Puisi

Hi there!

Previously I posted that I've joined a competition. Deklamasi Puisi Inovasi (LHDNM). Well guess what.? We got 3rd place!! Weehuu!!!
We were so proud of ourselves..all the hardship of training.. and also all the dramas along our journey to the final.. uhh.. shits.. this is the last time I ever agreed to asked for assistance from an amateur who acts like professional!! I myself also got a line of experience way back before you lah moron. Not to brag. But I've join competition organised by DBP for 3 years in a row which 2 of it my team got 1st place, and the 3rd time my team got 3rd place and I also won the Best Declamator title. Its also peringkat kebangsaan bah. Then u and me are the same.

(Ok.. enough perasan puji diri sendiri). Tee hee =P

Well.. 3rd place.. 1K. Hihihi.. yeay.. kachingg!! Money comes.. money go.. ya.. betul tu. 
Kaching konon.. maka bikin tambah duit bikin bayar sbb langgar kereta org hari tu. Haihh...  bad day.. I was tailing this car too close. Then bamm!!! Sa langgar buntut kereta. Huhu. Kereta sa lagi teruk. But I have to bear it la. He asked for 500. Change bumper I guess. (Scratch sj bah dia pnya keta. Tp still. Volkswagen Passat baitu.. mehh... there goes all my money. ='(
Lesson learned! Never tail a car too close!!! Huhu..


Saturday, November 2, 2013

Exam is over!

Recently I've seated for confirmation exam. 4 subjects which is Administration, Taxation, Finance and Law. Quite challenging since I've
Written the answer until the very last second. Totally fully utilizing all the time. Hihi
Hopefully I'll pass the exam with flying colors. I envy my seniors who managed to get 4.00 last semester.
Going back to KK now to fetch my 2 lil rascals. They've been there for 2 weeks now. I miss them so much.

Till next time.

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Deklamasi puisi la pula

Ohoyyy there..
It's already October! Woahh..where the hell I have been for these past few months without a post? I was around. But. Busy with work loads. The pile of files are piling up chasing me. Its really scary frankly speaking. Because taxpayers are chasing after me for their refunds. Mehh!!
Tambah2 lagi when i'm not around office due to kursus la..induksi la..event..this and that la. Pehh.. nasib baik monthly work statistic capai juga.
Eh..puisi bah pula tu sa punya tajuk sana atas kan..hihi
Ok. Puisi. Ya..PUISI. Sempena Hari Inovasi Hasil.. kami..Pena Stanza..dilantik secara paksa rela untuk mewakili PPNWPKL dalam pertandingan Puisi Inovasi Peringkat Kebangsaan LHDNM. Melibatkan LHDN seluruh Malaysia la kunun. Quite mencabar actually since kami kena karang puisi sendiri yang belum dipublish dalam mana mana media plus melagukan puisi. Means we have to perform our own poet, and sing the poet during the competition. Mehh! Although I have background in such competition during Uni, but I actually felt a little bit stress with it and so do the other members. Huhu.. the competition will be held next week on 22nd Oct same as Harvey's 4th birthday and me n my husband 7th Anniversarry together.
So..wish my team all the best and goodluck. May we perform the best and win the heart of all the audiences. ^_^

Last but not least.


Saturday, July 27, 2013

Shoes! Shoes! Shoes! I'm a happy girl!

I've always been a junkie when it comes to shoes. There was once a saying (I read somewhere) that a nice shoes will bring us to where we wanted to be.. Haha.. seems not so legit huh?
Well.. I prefer shoes more than handbags.. hihi.. ^_^ because shoes made me more confident when it comes to height.. and make our body posture much more better.. melentik kunun bah.. plus nice shoes made other girls turn heads and envy you.. woohoo!!
Well there's always consequences for high heels users.. that's why I don't wear it all the time. When I'm out and about for leisure or fun I prefer flats.. and thats when my friend make fun of my heights. 'Eh? Kenapa mcm ko pendek hari ni?' Hahahahaha...
When I go to work, of course la mau vogue2 especially when I wear knee length skirt.. haha..
But sometimes.. for weekend leisure I'll go for my Converse shoes.. hahaha.. still jiwa muda bah..
So here I am with all 4 pairs of shoes... last night's catch at Payless Shoesource Paradigm Mall.. I've got a great bargain.. except for the black shoes for work.. It cost me RM89. The others.. Purple peep toe, RM30.. Leopard high heels boots, RM40 and the Red Strap heels for RM25.. Total RM184.. kachiinnng!!! 4 pairs bah You know what I'm saying? Hehe
As soon as I reached home my husband and my elders brother just geleng kepala. Ngehehehe.. well..  sometimes this is the best way to reward myself after working so hard for living bah. Bukan tiap2 bulan pajak kasut. Once in a blue moon seja..
I should give some credit to the shoes store since Payless is quite unique from the other shoes stores.. Payless organized the shoes according to sizes, shelves by shelves. Quite easy for you to find your size. The shoes were displayed inside the box so you can just grab them, try and pay.. if you're lucky you might find your dream shoes with a much lower price.. fingercrossed.. (like me!!) Hehe..
Well.. next visit is a must for me.. but not in the near future la.. tnggu next month la.. kehkehkeh.. 4pairs is too much suda bah actually. But since there are quite a few schedules of live band performances for Hasil, I should be ready with all the nice, pretty and comfy shoes.. weehoo...! (Penuh kasut suda rumah.. my shoes shelves pun x muat sudah..adidi.. =P
Thats all dearies..

Friday, July 12, 2013

Cups Song

So.. hi there!!!

It's already July.. I've been idle from blogspot for a little while.. since I'm active in IG... hihi.. sorry my dear blog..I've been on and off with you lately.. But no.. I will never dump you.. hahahaha..

Last post, I posted a video of me covering Cinta Bersatu by Liyana Jasmay..
Today's post will also be a youtube video posted by me.. but a little bit different. have you ever watched Pitch Perfect Movie? If you're interested in acappella..and singing.. you should watch it. Great movie.. ^_^

So.. here is my video doing cover of the Cups Song performed by Anna Kendrick in the movie.. she has a unique voice.. and a hotties!!!
Enjoy the video..
You should try to do the cover too.. because its fun! hahaha..

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Cinta Bersatu (Cover)

Its been a long time I havent post video.. so..this is my rendition of Cinta Bersatu.. Liyana Jasmay.. enjoice.. ^_^

Saturday, June 22, 2013

Saturday, June 1, 2013

Its' June!!

It's already June!! This is my month. Hope everything goes well with my training. I'm currently under training for pengesahan jawatan.. started last 10th may...until this 20th June.. so hubby took care of the kids while I'm away.
A lot of things happens to me lately. I cant even list them one by one here..too many to be remembered and it really gets my stress level to rise.
Well.. just wish me goodluck on handling these pressures.. hehe..

This is my month!!!! I want to shine bright like a diamond!! Owh... I forgot.. diamonds don't shine.. they reflects! Hahaha..

Its not too late to wish all Sabahan Kotobian Tadau Tagazo Do Kaamatan  and to Sarawakian Happy Gawai!! Gaya guru gerai nyaman.. ^_^

Enjoy your holidays and weekends all..

Btw..follow me on IG as miszace_87 and Twitter as BellaAce87..

I'm getting active with IG nowadays. =P


Sunday, May 12, 2013

Mother's Day shout out

Happy Mother's Day to all mother!!

Especially to my mom and my mother in law..

And you mommies!! We are a great fighters..
Love all of you sayangs... mmuahh3x!

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Its Labour Day!

Hi everyone! Happy Labour Day to all workers whether you work for a boss or a boss yourself. Thanks be to God for this is the 2nd year I'm celebrating Labour Day.. thanks for all the blessings.. After graduating I've only managed to be unemployed for 1 month. Thank goodness. Haha..
Enjoy you holiday in the middle of the weekdays!

BTW, today is my big bro Gary's Birthday as well as my cousin Wilson. So, Happy Birthday to both of them. May all their dreams come true and God bless in everything they do.

Take care all.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013


From left: Fesila , Icka & me.
We've been bestfriends since like forever!

#Please pray for Icka's dad health condition. He's currently in critical situation at ICU Queen 2 Damai. I wish I can go back and accompany my bestie. ='(

Sunday, April 28, 2013

Short trip

So, I went back KK last week for a short trip which is 3 days and 2 nights only. I went back alone, bujang la katakan. My husband didn't managed to go back with me so he take care of the kids while I'm away.
It was a fun and meaningful short trip since I became a daughter for that whole 3 days. Being nagged by my mom and dad.. oh how I miss it.. hahaha.. those things are so rare for me since after getting married.
The main reason I went back is to attend my bestie's wedding. Sadly, her wedding reception that was supposed to be held at KDCA has to be postponed due to her dad's condition. Her dad was currently warded in ICU Queen 2 due to weak lungs. He depends on machine for breathing. Poor him. I've managed to pay him a visit right after my bestie's closed reception at Dowish Seafood restaurant in Bundusan. During the closed session, I can see it in my bestie's family's face that they were not that happy, but they still trying hard to smile.
I pray that uncle will be healthy again. Let us pray together for his health condition yaa.. thanks.
The most thing that I like during this short trip is having the quality time with the siblings. It's been a very long time haven't spent that treasured siblings moment. Hihi.. usually when I went back KK, I will be busy handling the kids as well as going back and forth to the in law's house.
So yeah.. looking forward for this coming Thursday! My sister, Gloria, is coming over! Yeay!!

#Happy Weekend all

Mobile blogging

You might noticed that lately I've been posting short post..well.. guess I can blog frequently now since I got my new Samsung Galaxy Note II yeay!!!.pehhh..what a poyo me.. sorry for being so in Vain... ahahaha...

Till then.. Good AM ya'll!!

Pic below taken when I was in KK attending my bestfriend's wedding..

Dota Heroes

Yep...both my son's middle name was named after Dota Heroes...since their daddy is a Gamers, so obsessed with online games especially Dota, he came up with Trent for Haven and Clinks for Harvey.. well..the spelling was a bit different so it won't be weird..the original spelling was Treant & Clinkz..

So there it is..
Haven Trent Tomson & Harvey Clinks Tomson

Saturday, April 27, 2013

My Bestfriend Wedding

Happy Wedding Day to my deary bestie Icka and her hubby Joe which both are my childhood friends since Sunday School!!! Hihi..

Friday, February 8, 2013


yahhh.......the blogging mojo comes and go.. and actually this entry were intended after considering 'kesian' to this poor little blogsite..hahaha..

Happy Weekend all and Happy Chinese New Year in advance..


Sunday, January 13, 2013

Life turned out great.

Last published post was November 18th? My goodness. I am that lazy??
Guess I have been focusing more to my new environment at work and believe me, the work loads are doubled than the previous department.
I hope it's not too late (who am I kidding? It is waaaay too late) to wish Merry Christmas 2012? or Happy new Year 2013? (this tickles me) and soon, Happy Chinese New Year? hahaha..

Well, a lot of good and bad things happened last year, which means it will not be forgotten but remains as to show that it really is a part of us. New Year doesn't mean closing a book..or ending a chapter in your life. It was a kick start for a new adventure and exploration. Keeping it short, Moving On. ^_^

While reading at my past entries, some of it made me giggles (I was sometimes terrible in posting, I admit it).
Hopefully I'll keep my blogging mojo switch turned ON, because this blog page really started to be a favorite for spider webs. Well, it is on the WEB. =P

Enjoy your weekend.